Just letting all my friends who have been supportive that my protective hearing went well, he told me that he is ordering us both to not see each other for a year for my safety because my wife is a dangerous person when her bipolar sets in. Mental health is something I am passionate about and still have a place in my heart for her, but legally I can move on from that horrible situation, I don’t have to fear being hit by my wife any longer or our cats being tossed against the wall. I thank you all, I am a tad bit upset that I failed my wife as a husband, but I will move forth. I got my Bachelor’s Degree in the mail today! I just feel like my whole world is crashing and going up at the same time. I don’t know what to do except stay strong, cuddle with my evil cats and try not to become homebound.
Her mental illness won the battle and unfortunately, she was unable to cope with the realities of our life. I will post more about what it is like to have an ex-wife who doesn’t care about you, tries to hurt you and mocks you. Her excuses for mental illness really brought me to a realization that maybe she faked this whole thing to get sympathy and money from people. I wish her the best of luck in the future. BEWARE future boyfriends: She will hurt you just like she hurt me, just like she hurt my cats and just like she hurt her own family. She is an evil person that needs help. On that note, I am going to go for a jog and enjoy my freedom from taking care of someone who hurts you on purpose.
– Tommi Asylum